Dear 16-year-old me

Dear 16-year-old me,
Hey girl, how are you doing? I should tell you that I am in a great place right now, even though it is not the one you had sketched out for me. You were such a romantic and borderline foolish, God, I can still see it in my head. It is funny how we are both the same person yet I dissociate myself from you and view you as another entity.


I can’t begin to describe how selfish you were, always looking out for yourself and worrying about your fate. It’s crazy that we don’t even live in Dubai anymore because all the while we thought we would stay there forever by marrying a certain someone with a lot of wealth. It was all that you ever wanted, to drive around in a fancy car with “him” by your side and make everyone jealous of your fabulous life. Knock some sense into yourself because he is just a boy and he will never grow into the man you want to be with. Dream big and you will reach a point in life where you find some purpose, sort of. Don’t determine your worth by latching onto another person.
 Swear all you want, love, but it is the bitter truth. One piece of advice, never let anyone tell you that you are not good enough because you are yourself and that is all that you need to know. You have a long fight ahead of you and you will have to make choices that will rip your heart out. Watch out for the faux friends and their ridiculous smiles. But I can assure you that I am still obsessed with T.V shows because no one can take that kind of crazy away from us overnight! Make mistakes, though, only then will you realise your true passion.


Yours sincerely,
23-year-old you


‘This post is a part of Write Over the Weekend, an initiative for Indian Bloggers by BlogAdda.’


#7 3WW – Kindly, Melodramatic, Light-hearted

Luci was ushered into the examination hall to write her entrance exam. The subject was English, the one language she feared the most to even think in. It haunted her every night as the only proper sentence she knew was, “What is your name?” The invigilator was a stern old lady with a bat face and that put her off immediately. The teacher thought her reaction was melodramatic when she handed the paper to the little girl.

She blinked at the paper, twitching her ultra-sharpened pencil in her hand. Her Aunt Riva had prepared her for the exam the night before and she was an alumnus of this prestigious school Luci was trying to get in. Feeble images of the comprehension flashed through her mind, she knew what she was looking at, she just needed to reach towards it and grab the answers. She dug her nails into her thighs, nervous and flushed. She prayed that her answers were right.

Nonchalantly, she glanced at the only large window that looked over the classroom. Her aunt Riva stood on the other side and hope surged through her. She gestured to Luci to continue writing her paper. That was all the boost Luci needed, she knew what she had to do. She reread each question two to three times, the comprehension answers were within the passage itself. She was so pleased with her work that she grinned at the invigilator. “Kindly hand over your paper, young lady.” The lady said in a clipped tone.

Luci placed the answer sheets on the teacher’s desk and left the room light-heartedly.


This post is a part of Three Word Wednesday (3WW).

5 Steps, Clean Arteries – SaffolaLife #ChhoteKadam


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Are you a lazy-ass woman who can’t get off the couch and quit snacking? Oh wait, that’s me. Do you want to live a heart healthy life, though? Hells to the yes! Here is the real deal, the World Heart Federation deems cardiovascular diseases as the primary killer of women with over 2 million premature deaths every year. The fact that I slouch around the house when I am not working provoked me into wanting to live a better life, a healthier life. Why should I compromise my health for temporary contentment? (Like hogging a packet of potato chips in one go so the person next to me doesn’t ask for one.)

We are not far from a robotic world domination, or so I’d like to think. Shouldn’t we take the step to secure our bodies into a healthier way of living? For so long I permitted the fog of inertness to consume me, but a day came when I said to myself – IT IS NOT THIS DAY, this day, I would walk the length of the pavement adjoining the Marina beach. I realised how much my body missed the invigorating episode. Let us not give into passiveness, let us join forces and put a smile on our faces and hearts. Here are 5 simple steps to a heart-smart, healthy life.

1. Get enough sleep
Nothing like a goodnight’s slumber to get you feeling fresh in the morning. A good 7-8 hours a day should do the trick.

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2. Drink lots of water
Hydrate your body with eight to ten glasses of water a day. We often turn to sugary drinks like soda and fruit juices when we are thirsty, but the healthier option is to avoid them. An American Heart Association volunteer states that “If you get thirsty, you’re already dehydrated.”

3. Eat a balanced diet
A buttery cholesterol-induced plate of parathas can be swapped with a colourful bowl of fruit and oatmeal. Your mealtime staples can include veggies, fruits, whole grains and fish, limiting foods rich in saturated fats (coconut, chocolate, stick butter) trans fats (mostly fast foods) and salt (sodium).


4. Workout regularly
Walk to the bus stand instead of getting a drop-off. Switch to taking the stairs instead of the elevator, a little bit of inclined walking always helps. Take your bicycle to work instead of your car if the distance is reasonable. A daily 30-minute cardio walk or jog is sufficient to keep the body active and fit. An overnight change is unviable, but it is up to us to take small steps towards a healthier lifestyle.

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5. Quit smoking
According to the World Heart Federation, 15% of the population in India smoke tobacco and it is a major cause of coronary heart diseases, which leads to heart attacks. So seriously, quit smoking and you can save your life.

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“I am joining the Saffolalife #ChhoteKadam initiative in association with BlogAdda and follow these small steps for a healthy heart.”